A. Males are to behave respectfully to all
Females at all times.
B. Males are to address Females as Mistress, Ma'am
or other proper title designated by that Female. If you're not sure then ask her how she prefers to be addressed.
C. Males are to remain on the floor and seated
or kneeling, at Club FEM private parties unless their service is commanded
by a Female. No males sitting on furniture, unless directed specifically
by a domme.
D. Males are to refrain from being loud
or roaming around unless given permission to do so by a Female.
E. Dominant attire for Females may include
casual wear, fetish wear, black clothing, corsets, elegant wear and/or powerful business attire.
It is up to the Domme what they wear to a party. Whatever She feels
comfortable wearing. There's no real rules as to how a woman should dress. We just want her to enjoy being there.
F. General overview of clothing:
1) Home parties - Males may appear partially
clothed at Club Fem private parties IF the party is held in
someone's private home.There slaves are expected to wear a collar, thong/panties
and no shirt. Submissive male crossdressers are welcome to wear sissymaid outfits. Bringing other s/m gear to show to others is optional. If you already
have a FemDom and She is attending the event then you are expected
to dress according to Her wishes. And male chastity devices are optional
but very encouraged. FemDommes may dress any way they want so long
as genitals are covered. It is more of a clothed female/scantily-clad male
type setting.
2) Regular Parties - Fetish clothes or
regular clothes can be worn at our regular parties when it's more
of a public setting like at a club and not in someone's home.
3) Munches (regular meetings /lunches at
restaurants) - This is what we usually have. Regular clothes should
be worn at our luncheon meetings we hold in public restaurants since
other people are in the restaurant too.
Future details about dress wil be specified
before the event.
G. Females are to refrain from touching or
commanding a collared slave without his Owner's permission. If you're not sure whether a male sub belongs to a domme, ask. If a sub is taken, he belongs to his Domme and is only required to serve, please and obey her. Each domme instructs/commands their own slave (or a male who expresses interest in being their potential slave.) The exception is when we're having a party and most slaves are acting in a waiter capacity. Asking or instructing a waiter type slave for a drink, food or a napkin is appropriate in that situation.)
H. This is a group for those who are interested
in loving Female-led relationships. Some pro-dommes may join so that
they may know other people who believe in Female authority. But they
may not ask male members for money, solicitations or paid sessions.
And no advertising/spamming members.
I. Married men may only join with their wives.
If they are sincerely looking for help in being submissive to their
wives, they should email Headmistress Lisa first (before applying) for
advice. We also prefer that married Women join with their husbands. We can offer advice or help and inspiration to women who want their hubbies to be very attentive and to do what they want.
J. No illegal substances will be utilized
at ClubFem gatherings and any intoxicated individuals will be asked
to leave.
K. Safewords or gestures are to be used at
all Club Fem sponsored activities. This can be as simple as telling the person to stop. We want everyone to enjoy themselves at our events.
