(The following are some good answers written by another dom on the web, Mistress Julie. My additional thoughts are presented after hers.)

Presenting yourself in the best possible way makes a good impression. You should be well groomed, neatly dressed with, of course, no vulgar language. Respect is key.

Perfecting a task, or a hobby, or something of use to her, that will make *you* stand out from the rest of the crowd. This may be very simple, perhaps you're a plumber, and can install or fix some leaky faucets in her house?

Perhaps you know how to cook a great meal.. or are a trained masseuse.. or builder - which ever you are, and everyone is 'something', you need to make yourself a commodity available to her.

Sadly, many submissives think that just by saying they are submissive to Her is enough.... it's not, and you as the submissive must stay on your toes, because there are many others dying for the chance to fill them......A good Mistress is not looking for a slave who drives a Mercedes, or has millions of dollars. Foremost she is looking for a good attitude and one who really knows he wants to serve a Woman and thinks of Her pleasure first.

Your race, ethnic background, and religion should not matter to her at all either. Your penis size neither matters, nor should you offer it......What matters is that you can be taught, by her, to perform her duties/tasks, that she will find most useful. What matters is that you are in good health, and would be willing to walk to the ends of the earth for Her..... if she felt inclined to ask you to, otherwise, you will not be a good submissive.

-Mistress Julie

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I agree with the above and in additional I, Mistress Lisa, look for respect, obedience, willingness to try new things to please his Mistress, someone who has good morals, and who would like to surrender completely and do as told to please someone else, his Goddess. Putting her needs and desires before his own.

Someone who has respect for himself yet is willing to beg or take some pain if she so desires it to prove his total submission and desire to serve Her.

Also the Domina should respect his limits, test them, and stretch them. Above all, Her desires come first. If you would like to be with a Dominant Woman such as Myself, then you should try your hardest to gain My favor and prove that you are worthy enough to belong to Me.

In your pursuit be true to yourself, share your emotions and experiences and ask questions if you have them. And do not be embarrassed by any of your questions or desires as I have most likely heard of them before. Open-mindedness is my specialty.

Oh and when serving remember to express your submission through words, looks and/or moans. Words of submission are a big turn-on for Me. I love hearing expressions of TRUE surrender and devotion.

-Mistress Lisa

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